Literary Contribution Beyond Books! Publications, Not Necessarily a Contribution

Literary Contribution Beyond Books!
Publications, Not Necessarily a Contribution
By Nazir Jahangir
Not long ago, someone left a comment on a Facebook post directed at the esteemed intellectual of our valley, Ms. Masooda Rajpuri. The commenter asked, with a tone of sarcasm and derision, “What are your contributions (to literature)?” The remark came from an individual unknown in literary circles, yet it prompted me to reflect on the nature of “contribution” and the misunderstandings surrounding it.
I found myself questioning what the commenter meant by “contribution” and how those with such “curiosities” define intellectual or literary merit?
The remark, though dismissive, led me to explore the deeper implications of this term. After all, does the sun need to prove its existence? Its radiance is proof enough. Similarly, a true intellectual does not need to justify their knowledge—those who recognize their brilliance stand as living testimony.
What Defines a Literary Contribution?
Is contribution merely the act of publishing books? If so, then consider this: Socrates, one of the greatest minds in history, never wrote a single book, yet his wisdom continues to shape human thought. Today, even an uneducated or illiterate person, with the right resources, can publish as many books as they please. Social media is flooded with advertisements from vanity presses offering to publish anything—for a price.
In our region, even schoolchildren from the fifth, eighth, and tenth grades have published books in English. Should we, based solely on these publications, recognize them as literary scholars? Likewise, many individuals manage to get incoherent, substandard writings published in newspapers and pass them off as literature. Should this, too, be considered a contribution?
It astonishes me that those who lack a fundamental understanding of literature are the ones most eager to demand “contributions” from respected intellectuals. The term has become a meaningless buzzword, tossed around by those who have neither insight nor credentials in the field.
A Conversation on “Contribution”
At a literary event, I once encountered a narrow-minded individual who asked, “What is your contribution to literature?” I replied, “If you are the one measuring my literary and intellectual abilities against the scale of your own understanding, then surely, they will amount to nothing—for your scale itself is flawed, incapable of accurate assessment. Now tell me, what is your contribution to literature?”
Proudly, he said, “I have published three books, written many stories, etc., etc.”
I responded, “That is no contribution. Tell me something meaningful—something intellectual, creative, or original that truly qualifies as a contribution.”
He looked perplexed. Hesitant, he admitted, “I don’t understand what you mean.”
“Exactly,” I said. “You cannot understand—because if you could, perhaps your so-called contribution would actually hold some value.”
I shared an analogy with him:
“One day, I asked a rooster, ‘You start crowing at dawn, and I’ll address that later, but first, tell me—aside from making noise, do you have anything to boast about?’ The rooster replied, ‘Yes, I have wings, which you do not.’ I said, ‘Indeed, but of what use are they? You can’t even fly as high as a sparrow. The moment you try, you come crashing down. Even a donkey has legs, but if it steps into a river, it will drown within moments—while a fish, without legs, glides effortlessly through the ocean. And then there is the moon, soaring through space without wings, moving gracefully and shining bright.’”
Those who boast about their books, radio and television dramas, and published articles as their “contributions” often fail to understand that true literary excellence, creativity, and wisdom exist on a different plane altogether—one that is, unfortunately, as rare as salt in flour in our valley.
The Intellectual Depth of Ms. Masooda Rajpuri!
I had the privilege of interacting with Ms. Masooda Rajpuri through Facebook for some time. She is an exceptionally intelligent and insightful literary figure, equipped with a profound critical sensibility.
In Kashmir, very few readers, writers, or critics truly grasp the deeper creative and philosophical dimensions of my stories. Yet, I found that whenever I posted a story, Ms. Masooda was the only one who engaged with it meaningfully.
Her critiques were not only remarkable but also deeply analytical—never superficial. She possesses an immense wealth of experience and observation, something that is evident in her assessments.
For me, being convinced by a critique of my work is an extraordinary occurrence, as I rarely find analyses that align with the essence of my writing. Once, a so-called writer told me, “I have read your stories, but they seem pointless.”
I replied, “Sir, if people like you did not exist, stories like The Fox and the Sour Grapes would never have been written! In fact, it is because of people like you that such stories come into being.”
Ironically, he mistook my sarcasm for praise and felt pleased with himself!
Contribution Beyond Publications!
There is a literary association here called the Fiction Writers’ Guild, which is thriving. I attended one of its meetings and noticed that many members, by conventional standards, had no published works. Yet, their level of literary, intellectual, and creative insight far surpassed that of many self-proclaimed writers who boast about their books and papers.
Similarly, in our valley, there is Dr. Wahid, a highly esteemed intellectual. He has no books or papers to his name, yet in serious literary and academic circles, his words command attention. This is because his understanding of literature, philosophy, and global affairs is far deeper than that of many celebrated authors.
True Contribution: A Rarity in Our Times
A literary contribution is not about stacking books on a shelf or seeing one’s name in print—it is about ideas, wisdom, creativity, and intellectual depth. Some of the greatest thinkers in history never wrote a word, yet their influence endures. Meanwhile, countless books are published daily, only to be forgotten the next.
True literary and intellectual contributions are rare, and in Kashmir, they are even rarer. Perhaps this is why those who truly contribute never feel the need to justify themselves—because, like the sun, their brilliance speaks for itself.
At the top of the list stands the esteemed Dr. Ghulam Qadir AIlaqaband Sahib. Although he has no apparent published works, his entire life is, in itself, a library of public service. He is a living treasure of Kashmir’s intellectual, literary, social, medical, and welfare history.
Those who are sincere in their actions and deeds do not seek publicity for their achievements. Their selfless contributions often remain unnoticed, and this is why those who demand recognition for contributions remain unaware of such great personalities.
Among Dr. AIlaqaband’s admirers and students are renowned intellectuals, writers, and respected figures in the social, literary, political, and medical circles. These admirers and well-wishers are, in fact, his true constituency. They are his true works, his real contributions—and I am but a humble admirer among them.
The same is true for Bashir Arif, Majid Asmi, Showkat Farooqi, Peerzada Abdal Mehjor and others. They are the pride of our literary landscape and culture, and no one has the right to demand proof of their contributions. They have already proven their mettle by playing a long and remarkable innings on the literary stage.

Guiding Young Souls : Parenting Amidst Modern Challenges

Guiding Young Souls: Parenting Amidst Modern Challenges
The Balance Between Modernity and Timeless Islamic Values


AUTHOR: Dr.Fiaz Maqbool Fazili
Parenting is one of the most significant responsibilities entrusted to individuals, shaping not only the lives of children but also the society they grow up in. From an Islamic perspective, parenting is regarded as a sacred duty, as children are seen as a trust (amanah) from Allah. This essay explores the Islamic principles, values, and practices that guide parenting, focusing on the role of parents in nurturing, educating, and shaping the character of their children.

The Concept of Parenting in Islam: In Islam, parenting is rooted in the teachings of the Qur’an and the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). Allah commands believers to care for their families, as stated in the Qur’an:”O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones…” (Qur’an 66:6).This verse highlights the immense responsibility placed upon parents to guide their children toward righteousness and away from harmful actions. Parenting in Islam encompasses both the physical and spiritual development of a child, ensuring their well-being in this world and the Hereafter.

Core Principles of Islamic Parenting Love and Mercy:

The foundation of parenting in Islam is love and mercy. The Qur’an frequently emphasizes the importance of kindness, particularly in the family context. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) demonstrated this through his interactions with children, showing affection, playing with them, and addressing their needs. Parents are encouraged to foster a loving and supportive environment where children feel safe and cherished, striving to maintain a balance between modern challenges and enduring Islamic principles while highlighting the significance of safeguarding and strengthening the family.

Tarbiyah (Holistic Upbringing): Tarbiyah refers to the process of nurturing and developing a child’s character, morals, and faith. This involves teaching children about Islamic values such as honesty, patience, gratitude, and respect. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you is responsible for his flock.” (Sahih al-Bukhari). Parents are thus seen as shepherds, entrusted with guiding their children on the straight path.

Education (Ilm): Seeking knowledge is an obligation in Islam for both men and women. Parents play a crucial role in instilling a love for learning in their children. This includes both religious education, such as teaching the Qur’an and Islamic practices, and secular education, which enables children to contribute meaningfully to society.

Role Modelling: Children learn by observing their parents. The behaviour of parents serves as a practical example of Islamic teachings. For instance, if parents are honest, compassionate, and prayerful, their children are more likely to adopt these qualities. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:”The best of you are those who are best to their families.” (Sunan al-Tirmidhi)

Discipline with Wisdom: Discipline in Islam is not about harshness but about guiding children with wisdom and kindness. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) advised against excessive harshness, as it could lead to resentment. Instead, parents are encouraged to use positive reinforcement and gentle reminders to correct behaviour.

Challenges and Solutions in Modern Parenting.
Parenting in the modern world comes with unique challenges, including the influence of technology, peer pressure, and shifting societal norms. From an Islamic perspective, addressing these challenges requires a balance between adhering to religious principles and adapting to contemporary realities.

Technology and Media: While technology offers educational opportunities, it also exposes children to inappropriate content. Parents should monitor their children’s screen time and encourage the use of technology for constructive purposes. Teaching children about Islamic ethics related to technology use, such as avoiding harmful content and respecting privacy, is essential.

Peer Pressure: Children often face peer pressure, which can lead them away from Islamic values. To counter this, parents should foster open communication, providing a safe space for children to discuss their concerns. Encouraging involvement in Islamic community activities can also help children build a supportive network of like-minded peers.

Balancing Work and Family Life: In today’s fast-paced world, parents may struggle to balance their professional responsibilities with family time. Islam emphasizes the importance of spending quality time with family. Simple acts, such as sharing meals, praying together, or engaging in meaningful conversations, can strengthen familial bonds.

Instilling Identity and Faith: In multicultural societies, children may face identity crisis. Parents should instill a strong sense of Islamic identity by teaching them about their faith, culture, and heritage. This includes celebrating Islamic traditions, such as Ramadan and Eid, and encouraging pride in their Muslim identity.

Rewards of Parenting in Islam. Parenting is not only a responsibility but also an opportunity to earn immense rewards. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:”When a person dies, their deeds come to an end except for three: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, or a righteous child who prays for them.” (Sahih Muslim)

Raising righteous children who contribute positively to society ensures that parents continue to receive blessings even after their passing. Moreover, the effort invested in raising children is considered an act of worship, as long as it is done with sincere intentions.

Parenting – In the Era of Turmoil -Fitnoon Key Door main.Islamic parenting is one of the most significant responsibilities bestowed upon individuals, especially in an era rife with trials and tribulations (fitnoon key door main). The challenges of raising righteous children in today’s morally turbulent world require wisdom, patience, and steadfastness. From an Islamic perspective, parenting is not merely about providing for a child’s physical needs but also nurturing their spiritual, emotional, and intellectual growth in alignment with Islamic teachings. The Qur’an and Sunnah provide clear guidelines for parents to cultivate strong moral character and faith in their children. Allah commands believers to save themselves and their families from the fire (Surah At-Tahrim, 66:6), emphasizing the importance of instilling taqwa (God-consciousness). Parents are role models; their behaviour, words, and actions leave lasting impressions on their children. Practicing kindness, honesty, and humility teaches values far more effectively than mere words.

In the age of social media and distractions, it is crucial to guard children against harmful influences while fostering a love for Islamic knowledge and practices. In today’s fast-paced, digitally driven world, raising children with strong Islamic values while navigating modern challenges is essential. Establishing regular prayer, encouraging Quranic recitation, and engaging in open, respectful communication can fortify their faith. Protect This House essay focuses on equipping parents with the tools to instill faith, discipline, and empathy in their children. Rooted in Islamic principles (Fiqh), this initiative emphasizes: 1. *Faith Foundations*: Teaching children the basics of Iman, Salah, and Quranic values to build a strong spiritual core.  2. *Digital Discipline*: Guiding kids to use technology responsibly while avoiding harmful influences.  3. *Emotional Intelligence*: Encouraging empathy, kindness, and resilience to foster healthy relationships.  4. *Family Bonding*: Prioritizing quality time, open communication, and shared Islamic practices to strengthen family ties.  5. *Critical Thinking*: Helping children navigate modern dilemmas with an Islamic perspective.

Parenting, especially in turbulent times, holds the key, is a sacred trust and a profound test. Through dua, perseverance, and reliance on Allah, parents can raise a generation that upholds Islamic values amidst worldly chaos. Rooted in love, dedication, and adherence to the Qur’an and Sunnah, Islamic parenting nurtures children with compassion, a strong moral foundation, and essential knowledge. While modern challenges may complicate this task, Islam’s timeless teachings offer practical guidance. Beyond shaping children’s lives, parenting is a path to success in this world and the Hereafter, fostering faith-driven, responsible individuals and protecting homes with Islamic values—building a legacy of faith and resilience, one family at a time.

(The writer is a Surgeon at Mubarak Hospital in Srinagar, holds a postgraduate degree in Islamic studies, and writes for social, moral, and religious columns, can be contacted at drfiazfazili@gmail.com.)

 

 

Choosing Your Partner Wisely!

Choosing Your Partner Wisely!
Misconceptions About Freedom of Choice, ** Islamic Freedom vs Western Dating** in Spouse Selection.
This choice is guided by Islamic principles that prioritize **good character (Akhlaq)**, **Honesty**, and **spirituality (Deen)** as key criteria for selecting a spouse.

AUTHOR- DR.FIAZ MAQBOOL FAZILI

Marriage is a socio-sacred institution that plays a pivotal role in the social and spiritual fabric of life. In Islam, choosing a marital spouse is a lifetime and lifestyle decision of great importance, one that should be made with wisdom, sincerity, and faith-based principles. In Islam, the right of a woman to choose her marriage partner is firmly established, emphasizing her consent as a cornerstone of a valid marriage. Contrary to misconceptions, Islam grants both men and women the right to choose their partners, ensuring that consent is a fundamental component of a valid marriage. However, while religious teachings provide clear guidance on choosing a spouse, societal norms and cultural expectations can sometimes lead to confusion or pressure, influencing individuals in ways that may not align with Islamic values. This essay explores the key criteria for choosing a spouse, the misconceptions surrounding freedom of choice, and the societal and religious perspectives that impact this decision. Additionally, it delves into the importance of safety—both emotional and physical—when selecting a life partner.

Key criteria for choosing a spouse especially by followers of faith Islam in materialistic era like today’s is pushed as priority nextIslamic teachings emphasize specific qualities that should be prioritized when selecting a spouse. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:”A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty, and her religion. Choose the one who is religious, may you be blessed.” (Sahih al-Bukhari, Sahih Muslim) This hadith highlights that while people may consider various factors when choosing a spouse, the most important criterion should be faith (deen). Below are key aspects that Islam emphasizes:Faith and Spirituality (Deen): A strong connection to faith ensures that both partners share similar values, beliefs, and life goals. A person with a firm religious foundation is more likely to uphold justice, kindness, and responsibility in marriage.Good Character (Akhlaq): Character defines how a person treats their spouse and others around them. Qualities such as honesty, patience, respect, and humility contribute to a stable and loving marriage.A successful marriage is built on trust, which requires both partners to be truthful, honest  and dependable. Deception or dishonesty of any kind can lead to instability and emotional distress.

Compatibility: While faith is the most critical factor, compatibility in lifestyle, values, and long-term goals enhances mutual understanding and happiness in marriage. Compatibility in marriage goes beyond faith—it extends to lifestyle, values, personality , mindset, attitude and long-term goals, fostering mutual understanding and happiness. No two individuals, not even identical twins, share identical behaviors and attitudes. Differences are inevitable, making compromise, tolerance, coexistence, and sacrifice essential for a lasting relationship. Resilience helps couples navigate challenges, ensuring love and respect remain intact. To sustain and nurture a successful marriage, one must set aside egos and materialistic concerns, prioritizing emotional connection and mutual growth. Just as a well-fitted pair of shoes brings comfort, a relationship thrives when both partners adjust and walk together in harmony.

Family Considerations and Support: While Islam allows individual choice, it also encourages considering family opinions. A spouse who respects their partner’s family is more likely to foster a harmonious relationship, sadly haughtiness of “tribe, sects and certain families erroneous belief of privileged ones especially whose family name ends with  letter “I “Financial and Emotional Stability: A potential spouse should be emotionally mature and capable of fulfilling their responsibilities, ensuring that the marriage is not burdened with undue hardship.

Misconceptions About Freedom of Choice in Marriage; Freedom ≠ Western Dating Culture; One of the most common misconceptions is equating the Islamic approach to marriage with restrictive or forced marriages. However, Islam upholds the freedom of choice while providing guidelines to ensure a successful and righteous union.Islamic freedom in marriage does not mean unrestricted relationships or casual dating. Instead, it promotes a structured approach where interactions are conducted within ethical boundaries to ensure mutual respect and dignity.

Parental Consent vs. Forced Marriage: Islam encourages parental guidance but strictly prohibits forced marriages. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) annulled a marriage in which a woman was married without her consent, reaffirming her right to choose (Sunan Abu Dawood,).

Cultural Pressures vs. Islamic Teachings: In some cultures, marriage decisions are influenced by wealth, social status, or tribal affiliations rather than faith and character. Such practices contradict Islamic teachings, which prioritize righteousness over materialistic concerns.

Societal Norms and Their Impact on Choosing a Spouse; Societal expectations often shape how individuals perceive marriage. Some cultural norms align with Islamic teachings, while others create obstacles that contradict faith-based principles. Below are some societal factors affecting marriage choices: Materialism and Status: Many societies place undue emphasis on financial status, leading individuals to prioritize wealth over character. This can result in relationships that lack genuine compatibility and spiritual connection.Unrealistic Beauty Standards: Social media and mainstream culture often promote superficial beauty standards, leading individuals to prioritize appearance over faith and values. This can divert attention from what truly sustains a marriage—character and compatibility. Family Expectations: While parental approval is important, excessive family pressure can lead to forced or compromised choices. Islam encourages balance—seeking family support while ensuring that the final decision aligns with Islamic principles.Fear of Social Judgment: Some individuals make marital decisions based on societal approval rather than personal compatibility. This can lead to unhappy marriages where expectations are met for external validation rather than genuine partnership.

Ensuring Safety in Choosing a Marital Spouse; Marriage should be a source of security, love, and companionship. Ensuring safety—both emotionally and physically—is crucial when selecting a life partner. Here are some key considerations: Background Checks and Family Inquiry: Islam encourages investigating a potential spouse’s background to ensure they possess good character and intentions. Seeking information from reliable sources, such as family and community members, can help in making an informed decision.Observing Behavior in Different Settings: A person’s behaviour in social settings, with family, friends, especially where opinions differ( small small fighting’s)  and under stress, reveals much about their character. If someone exhibits aggression, dishonesty, or disrespect, these are warning signs that should not be ignored.

Open and Honest Communication: Before marriage, both individuals with consent of parents should discuss within permissible limits of sharia the key aspects of life, including faith, family expectations, financial responsibilities, and personal goals. Transparency minimizes misunderstandings later in marriage. This one action has proved successful in maintaining a successful relationship.

Recognizing Red Flags: Some behaviors indicate potential danger in a relationship, including: Controlling or manipulative tendencies; Disrespect towards family or elders; History of substance abuse, dishonesty or violence illegal relationships (living or otherwise) Refusal to communicate openly, hiding some adverse information(health or other)which can affect marital bondage.

Involving Trusted Elders or Advisors: Seeking advice from knowledgeable and trustworthy elders or religious scholars always provide valuable insights into making the right choice.

Spiritual Guidance and Prayer (Istikhara): Seeking divine guidance through prayer (Salat al-Istikhara) is an essential step in making a wise marital decision. Placing trust in Allah ensures that the choice is made with sincerity and faith.

Choosing a marital spouse is a significant decision that requires a balance of faith, wisdom, and personal conviction. Islam provides clear guidance on the qualities to seek in a spouse—faith, character, honesty, and compatibility—while also emphasizing the importance of individual choice and consent. Societal norms should be evaluated critically, ensuring that cultural expectations do not override religious principles.Furthermore, prioritizing safety in selecting a partner is essential to fostering a secure and fulfilling marriage. Open communication, background verification, and spiritual guidance help ensure a successful union. By adhering to Islamic teachings and making informed choices, individuals can build marriages that are rooted in love, trust, and long-term harmony.Ultimately, choosing a spouse wisely is not just about finding a life partner but about building a relationship that aligns with one’s faith, values, and long-term aspirations. By placing trust in Allah and following the principles of Islam, one can ensure a marriage that brings peace, joy, and spiritual growth.

The author is a surgeon at Mubarak hospital, Member of GCC- Group of Concerned citizens  contributing Social. Moral, Religious columns can be reached at drfiaZfazili@gmail.com)

 
 
 
 
 
 
Dr.Fiaz Maqbool Fazili  MBBS; MS(SKIMS);FICS;FICA(USA) MAMS;DTQM; CQPH;FISQua;CTQM;(Q&A)

 Senior Consultant Surgeon (Surgical Gastroenterology; Onco-Surgery; Breast, ,GIT,Hernia; Diabetic foot ,Wound care  & Minimal access;&  Gen;Surgery problems);

Clinical auditor &  Consultant ; Hospital & Healthcare Policy Planning; Patient safety &Quality care(QPS) Improvement.
Certified Quality Professional (Specialist)  for Healthcare & Strategic Hospital (healthcare operations & Accreditation; Disaster Management Planning;

Advocate Patient & Family rights(satisfaction ;Experience; Malpractice ) Patient counseling &-Second opinion);

Advisor  & Executive member, Board of Directors for Hospital projects -NGOs(Charitable or Business model

Ex Consultant Surgery SKIMS Soura & As Consultant King Fahd Hospital Madina Munawarah  ;Member international tumor Board;Breast cancer awareness programme; President WALS; World association of Laparoscopic surgeons- Ks chptr;

Ex.Director ;TQM & Hospital Policy planning, Healthcare Standards and Patient Care,Safety improvement; Structure(building),Policy; Procedures(Protocol’s) and Operations,Quality management & Control; t,Patient experience.(KFH Medina-ten years);

Risk manager & Accreditation supervisor(Team leader) ;Helps hospitals to prepare to achieve  NABH/JCI /CBAHI Accreditation& .Patient safety;

Review Editor International Journal of Emergency,Trauma;Shock(JETS);Min Invasive Surgery Annals of Surgery; Annals of Saudi Medicine;Ind JR of Surgery;

Newspaper and Social media Columnist, blogger Healthcare(cancer awareness & prevention) Improvement of   Healthcare-standards ,Safety; Moral Ethics in healthcare &  hospitals.

 

Empty Nest Syndrome

Empty Nest Syndrome: A Harsh Reality – Denial or Acceptance?
Are Old Age Homes Stigmatized in Kashmiri Society? Let’s Reframe Them as ‘Happy Homes for Dignified and Healthier Living'”
AUTHOR; Dr. Fiaz Maqbool Fazili

Empty Nest Syndrome, a term often used to describe the profound sense of loss and loneliness experienced by parents when their children leave home, is becoming an increasingly harsh reality in modern societies. While the phenomenon transcends cultural boundaries, its impact in a closely-knit and tradition-bound society like Kashmir is particularly poignant. In Kashmir, suggesting “old age homes” is stigmatized as neglecting parents and evading children’s responsibilities, clashing with cultural and religious values. Yet, elderly parents often face loneliness and isolation as family structures change and children migrate. The solution lies in reimagining these facilities—not as “old age homes” but as healthier homes for dignified living. Community-funded centres rooted in Kashmiri culture and Islamic values can offer companionship, care, and safety without alienating families. These spaces, designed for social engagement and well-being, complement familial care, ensuring elderly parents age with dignity, bridging the gap between tradition and modern necessity. This writeup explores the challenges faced by aging parents, especially in the context of the shifting dynamics of family structures, societal stigmas, and the lack of adequate support systems, and proposes practical solutions to ensure healthier homes for aging with dignity.

The Grim Realities of Aging in Kashmir; A Real Story: Engineer Khan Sahib and His Wife; Engineer A.R. Khan Sahib (name changed) and his wife, a retired teacher, exemplify the struggles faced by elderly parents in Kashmir. Once vibrant and full of life, the couple now spends their days in solitude. Their four children, all successful professionals, live abroad as non-resident Kashmiris (NRKs). In the past, Khan Sahib and his wife would spend months each year visiting their children, staying with them in turns, but this year they have chosen not to. Despite the children’s best efforts—providing modern amenities, financial support, and scheduling frequent WhatsApp and FaceTime calls—the emptiness and loneliness in the couple’s lives are palpable. Their story is not an isolated one; it is a reflection of the growing disconnect between elderly parents and their children, exacerbated by globalization and modern lifestyles.

The Stigma of “Old Age Homes” in Kashmiri Society; Kashmir, a predominantly Muslim society, places a high value on familial bonds and obedience to parents, as emphasized in Islamic teachings. In this cultural and religious context, the idea of sending parents to an “old age home” is stigmatized and considered disrespectful. This stigma often leads to denial about the realities of aging and the need for structured care facilities.

However, the reality is starkly different. Families are increasingly nuclear, children are often geographically distant, and relatives and neighbours rarely have the time to engage with the elderly. Traditional support systems like social workers, Mohalla committees or close-knit extended families have eroded. The elderly are left to navigate their later years in isolation, with limited opportunities for social interaction or community engagement.

Loneliness: A Growing Public Health Concern; A report published in the,” Lancet,” world’s best medical magazine highlights loneliness as a significant public health issue, predicting it will become one of the leading disorders in the coming years. Prolonged loneliness can lead to a range of health issues, including depression, anxiety, cardiovascular diseases, and cognitive decline.

For elderly individuals, loneliness is not just a psychological state but a silent epidemic that compromises their overall well-being. In Kashmir, the lack of structured social spaces for senior citizens further exacerbates this issue. Unlike metropolitan areas like Delhi, which boast senior citizen clubs and community centres, Kashmir offers few, if any, avenues for the elderly to engage in meaningful social activities.

Healthier Homes for Dignified Living: A Viable Solution; The term “old age home” may be stigmatized, but the concept of “healthier homes for dignified living” could be an acceptable alternative. Such facilities can provide a sense of community, care, and companionship, addressing the loneliness that many elderly individuals experience.

Advantages of Healthier Homes, (just Temporary as daily visit or permanent ones) ;1. Social Interaction: Dedicated spaces for elderly individuals foster socialization. Activities like group discussions, cultural events, and recreational games can create a sense of belonging and purpose.2. Physical and Mental Well-being: Facilities can include health monitoring, exercise sessions, and mental health support, ensuring that residents maintain a healthy lifestyle.3. Safety and Security: Many elderly individuals feel unsafe living alone, especially in rural or isolated areas. Healthier homes offer a secure environment with round-the-clock assistance.4. Preservation of Dignity: Unlike the traditional concept of old age homes, these facilities can be designed to respect the cultural and religious values of the community, ensuring that residents feel valued and respected.

Debating the Necessity of Structured Care;
A).Arguments Against Healthier Homes-
1.Cultural and Religious Opposition: Critics argue that the concept is incompatible with Kashmiri traditions and Islamic values, which emphasize familial care.2.Financial Burden: Many families may not be able to afford the costs associated with such facilities.3.Perceived Abdication of Responsibility: Sending parents to a structured care facility is often seen as shirking the moral and religious duty of children to care for their aging parents.

B.) Counterarguments; 1. Adaptation to Modern Realities Not Denial mode; The migration of children and the breakdown of traditional family structures necessitate alternative solutions. Healthier homes are not a replacement for familial care but a supplement to it.2. Community-Centric Approach: Facilities can be community-funded and operated, reducing the financial burden on individual families. 3.Changing Perceptions: Awareness campaigns can help reduce the stigma associated with structured care, emphasizing that such facilities enhance dignity and quality of life.

Stories of Hope: Successful Models to Emulate.

Delhi’s Senior Citizen Clubs: In Delhi and other metropolitan areas, senior citizen clubs provide a space for elderly individuals to interact, share experiences, and participate in various activities. These clubs have proven to be effective in combating loneliness and improving the mental health of participants.

Islamic Alternatives: In many Muslim-majority countries, community-funded elder care facilities operate within the framework of Islamic values. These institutions prioritize respect, care, and companionship, aligning with the principles of familial obligation while addressing practical realities.

A Vision for Kashmir; A similar model can be implemented in Kashmir, with modifications to suit the local culture and religious sensitivities. Community rooms, senior citizen clubs, or Mohalla-based activity centres can provide much-needed support and engagement for the elderly.

Recommendations for Action; 1.Community Involvement: Encourage local mosques, Mohalla committees, and NGOs to establish community rooms and activity centres for the elderly.2.Government Support: Advocate for government-funded initiatives to create and maintain healthier homes for dignified living.3.Education and Awareness: Conduct awareness campaigns to reduce the stigma associated with structured elder care and emphasize its benefits.4.Integration with Religious Values:

Design facilities and programs that align with Islamic teachings, have a place with prayer ior reading room /library facilities ensuring that residents feel respected and valued.

Technology as a Bridge: While technology cannot replace human interaction, it can be used to facilitate virtual community-building and engagement for homebound elderly individuals.

Food For Thought; Empty Nest Syndrome is a harsh reality, especially in a society like Kashmir, where traditional values are colliding with modern challenges. Denying the loneliness and isolation faced by aging parents does a disservice to their dignity and well-being. While the term “old age home” may carry a stigma, the concept of “healthier homes for dignified living” provides a viable solution that balances cultural values with practical needs.

By embracing structured care facilities and creating spaces for social interaction, we can ensure that our elderly not only age with dignity but also rediscover a sense of purpose and belonging. In the words of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him):”He is not of us who does not have mercy on young children, nor honor the elderly.” (Sunan al-Tirmidhi 1919)

The time to act is now—to transform loneliness into companionship, despair into hope, and isolation into community ,hollow criticism is easy what we need “viable solutions to the growing problem.
. (Dr. Fiaz Maqbool Fazili is a medical doctor at Mubarak Hospital, a member of the Group of Concerned Citizens, and a columnist who actively contributes to discussions on moral, social, and religious issues. He can be reached at drfiazfazili@gmail.com or via Twitter @drfiazfazili.)

Dr Fiaz Maqbool Fazili on challenges of single mothers ,

My Pain is my Pain! Challenges of Single Mother’s.
Struggles of Single Moms in the Traditional Conservative Society of Kashmir.

Author: Dr. Fiaz Maqbool Fazili

The status of a single mother is not one that any woman would voluntarily and happily choose for herself in a traditional conservative society like Kashmir. The region, deeply rooted in its cultural, religious, and societal norms, perceives family structures as sacrosanct. Any deviation from the norm of a two-parent household is often met with scepticism, judgment, and prejudice. For a woman navigating the difficult journey of single motherhood, the challenges are multifaceted ranging from social ostracism to emotional and financial struggles. This article delves into the challenges faced by single mothers in Kashmir, drawing insights from confidential interactions with many of them. It highlights the societal, cultural, emotional, and economic obstacles they navigate and explores their journeys of self-healing and resilience.

  1. The Stigma of Single Motherhood in a Conservative Society;Kashmir, a region known for its tightly knit community structures, places great emphasis on family unity. A single mother is often viewed as an anomaly, her status questioned and scrutinized by neighbours, relatives, and even acquaintances. The societal perception that a woman cannot thrive without a man further compounds her struggles. Divorce, widowhood, or separation is seen as a reflection of failure—on the part of the woman, regardless of the circumstances.

This stigma creates an isolating environment for single mothers, who often find themselves excluded from social events or community gatherings. The judgment they endure is not limited to whispered gossip but manifests in overt acts of discrimination, such as being denied opportunities to participate in certain religious or social circles. Such experiences erode their self-esteem and hinder their ability to build a supportive network.

  1. Financial Constraints and Economic Challenges;In Kashmir, many women rely on their spouses for financial stability. A single mother, left to fend for herself and her children, faces the overwhelming burden of providing for her family. Employment opportunities in Kashmir are limited, especially for women, and societal attitudes often discourage women from pursuing work outside the home.

For single mothers, balancing employment with childcare is particularly difficult. Affordable childcare options are scarce, and the lack of extended family support exacerbates the problem. Many women are forced to take up low-paying or part-time jobs that offer little economic security, at times face intimidation and exploitation too. In addition, the cultural expectation that women prioritize caregiving over professional ambitions limits their prospects for career advancement. The financial strain is further aggravated by societal expectations to maintain a certain standard of living. Single mothers may feel pressured to ensure their children have the same opportunities as their peers, which often requires stretching already limited resources.

  1. Emotional and Psychological Toll; My pain is my Pain .The emotional impact of single motherhood in a conservative society like Kashmir is profound. The constant judgment and scrutiny take a toll on mental health, leading to feelings of inadequacy, anxiety, and depression. Many single mothers grapple with self-doubt, questioning their ability to provide a stable and nurturing environment for their children. The challenges of single motherhood are often compounded by grief or trauma. Widows, for instance, may still be processing the loss of their spouse, while divorced women might struggle with the emotional scars of an abusive or failed marriage. These unresolved emotions can make it difficult to focus on personal healing or move forward in life.

Adding to the emotional burden is the societal tendency to hold single mothers accountable for the behaviour of their children. If a child struggles academically or behaves poorly, the mother is often blamed, reinforcing feelings of guilt and failure.

  1. Impact on Children of Single Mothers;The children of single mothers in Kashmir are not immune to societal prejudice. They may face bullying or exclusion from peers, particularly in schools or religious institutions. Questions about the absence of a father figure can lead to feelings of alienation and insecurity. Single mothers often worry about the long-term impact of their circumstances on their children’s emotional well-being. They may overcompensate by trying to fulfill both parental roles, which can lead to physical and emotional exhaustion. Additionally, the lack of a male role model in the household may raise concerns about their children’s social development, particularly in a patriarchal society that emphasizes traditional gender roles.
  2. Religious Misconceptions and Societal Judgment;Islam, the predominant religion in Kashmir, provides clear guidance on supporting widows, orphans, and divorced women. However, societal interpretations often stray from these teachings. Single mothers may find themselves judged through a cultural lens sometimes profanity rather than a religious one, facing accusations of failing to uphold moral, family values or religious principles. This disconnects between religious teachings and societal attitudes creates an additional layer of struggle for single mothers. They often feel alienated from the very communities that should offer solace and support, such as mosques or religious gatherings.
  3. Coping with the Challenges: Pathways to Resilience;Despite these challenges, many single mothers in Kashmir demonstrate remarkable resilience. Their ability to navigate societal judgment, economic hardship, braving odds and emotional turmoil speaks to their inner strength and determination. On interacting with a few who volunteered to provide me inputs for this piece  only after privacy, confidentiality on their identity was assured .Here are some of the ways they cope and find paths toward healing:a. Building Support Networks; Forming connections with other single mothers or supportive community members can provide much-needed emotional and practical support. Shared experiences foster a sense of solidarity and reduce feelings of isolation. Seeking Education and Employment. Many single mothers pursue education or vocational training as a means of achieving financial independence. By enhancing their skills and qualifications, they improve their chances of securing stable employment and providing for their families’. Turning to Faith; Faith often serves as a single most primary source of comfort and strength. Many single mothers find solace in prayer, Quranic study, and Islamic teachings that emphasize resilience and self-reliance. This spiritual connection helps them cope with adversity and maintain hope for the future.d. Advocating for Their Children;Single mothers are often fiercely dedicated to ensuring their children have access to education and opportunities. This commitment serves as a motivator, driving them to overcome obstacles and create a better future for their families.

 

Challenges of Single Mothers in the Traditional Conservative Society of Kashmir

  1. The Role of Society in Supporting Single Mothers;Addressing the challenges faced by single mothers in Kashmir requires a collective effort. Society must move away from judgment and stigma, and instead embrace empathy and understanding.A. Education and Awareness; Community awareness programs can help dispel misconceptions about single motherhood and promote acceptance. Educating people about the struggles faced by single mothers can foster a more supportive environment. Economic Empowerment. Government and non-governmental organisations should prioritise initiatives that support single mothers, such as job training programs, microloans, self-employment under women empowerment programs   and childcare schemes. These measures can help single mothers achieve financial independence and stability.c. Religious and Community Support; Religious leaders and community organizations should play an active role in supporting single mothers. This includes providing counselling services, financial assistance, facilitating food or essential supplies and platforms for social inclusion.d. Legal Reforms; Strengthening legal protections for single mothers, such as enforcing child support obligations and addressing workplace discrimination, is essential for their empowerment.
  2. Self-Healing and Personal Growth;While societal change is crucial, single mothers must also focus on their own healing and growth. Developing self-confidence and resilience is a gradual process that requires self-compassion and patience. Seeking therapy or counselling can be invaluable in addressing trauma and building coping mechanisms. Personal growth also involves redefining one’s identity beyond the label of “single mother.” pursuing education again, entrepreneurship or engaging in community service can provide a sense of purpose and fulfilment.
    9.Difficulty with Marrying Again; Difficulty with marrying again can be a struggle for some single mothers. While many single mothers may desire companionship and family life love, they may also face unique challenges when it comes to parenting the former children and children from new wedlock. Single mothers may have limited time and resources to devote to marrying, and they may worry about how their dating life could impact their children. Furthermore, single mothers may also face negative stereotypes and stigma from potential partners or society at large, which can make it more difficult for them to find meaningful relationships.
  • Single motherhood in a traditional conservative society like Kashmir is fraught with challenges, but it is not devoid of hope. While societal attitudes and cultural norms often exacerbate the struggles of single mothers, their resilience and determination are a testament to their strength. By fostering empathy, providing economic opportunities, and challenging societal stigma, Kashmir can create an environment where single mothers and their children can thrive. Destiny may be inevitable, but with collective effort and personal growth, single mothers can transform their challenges into opportunities for healing and empowerment.
    Author besides being a medical doctor at Mubarak hospital, Member OF GCC- Group of Concerned Citizens., an influencer columnist active in positive perception management of various moral, religious  and social issues, can be reached at drfiazfazili@gmail.com)

Hopes From Year 2025 writes Faisal Khankashi, opinion 30 December 2024 issue

Hopes from Year 2025 – A Political and Knowledge-Based Perspective on Jammu and Kashmir
By Faisal Khankashi
As a proud citizen of the largest democracy in the world, India, and a native of Jammu and Kashmir—the Jewel of the Crown—I hold high hopes for 2025. This year, designated by the United Nations as the International Year of Cooperatives, underscores the global call for collaboration and unity in addressing social challenges. It offers a unique opportunity to reflect on the aspirations of Jammu and Kashmir, a land of unparalleled natural beauty, resilience, and potential.
Political Hopes for Jammu and Kashmir in 2025
1.Restoration of Statehood
One of the most anticipated political developments in Jammu and Kashmir is the restoration of its statehood. Since the revocation of Article 370 in 2019, the region has experienced significant structural changes. While the reorganization has brought opportunities for development, the people of J&K yearn for a return to full statehood, which will restore their sense of political dignity and empowerment.
In 2025, I hope for an inclusive dialogue between the people of Jammu and Kashmir and the central government, leading to a consensus on statehood restoration. This would not only strengthen India’s democratic ethos but also pave the way for a renewed trust between the region and the rest of the nation.
2.Strengthening Local Governance
Another political hope is the empowerment of local governance through Panchayati Raj institutions and the District Development Councils (DDCs). The successful functioning of these institutions can enhance participatory democracy, ensuring that the voices of the people are heard at the grassroots level.
In 2025, I envision increased devolution of powers to these local bodies, enabling them to address issues like education, healthcare, and infrastructure more effectively. This could foster a sense of ownership among the people and bridge the governance gap.
3.A Roadmap for Peace and Stability
Peace remains a fundamental aspiration for Jammu and Kashmir. In 2025, I hope for the continuation of efforts to bring an end to militancy and violence in the region. Strengthening security while promoting dialogue with all stakeholders—including youth, civil society, and political groups—will be crucial for creating an environment of trust and cooperation.
Diplomatic engagement with neighboring countries to address cross-border issues, coupled with economic and cultural exchanges, can significantly contribute to regional stability.
4.Inclusion in the National Political Framework
Another hope for 2025 is the greater representation of Jammu and Kashmir in national policymaking. As citizens of India, the voices of the people of J&K should be adequately reflected in Parliament and other forums. This can be achieved through increased participation of regional leaders in national politics and policies tailored to the unique needs of the region.
Knowledge-Based Development for Jammu and Kashmir
1.Education and Research Hubs
The year 2025 holds promise for the establishment of Jammu and Kashmir as a hub for education and research. With its strategic location and rich cultural heritage, the region has immense potential to attract students and scholars from across the world.
By investing in higher education, particularly in fields like environmental sciences, tourism, and medicine, Jammu and Kashmir can emerge as a knowledge leader. Institutions like the University of Kashmir and the Jammu University can play a pivotal role in fostering innovation and skill development.
2.Harnessing Renewable Energy
With the global focus on renewable energy in 2025, Jammu and Kashmir has the potential to become a leader in hydropower and solar energy. The region’s vast water resources can be utilized to generate clean energy, not only for local use but also for export to other parts of India.
Investments in green energy infrastructure can create jobs, reduce environmental degradation, and position J&K as a sustainable energy hub.
3.Leveraging Tourism for Cultural Exchange
Tourism, one of the mainstays of J&K’s economy, can become a catalyst for knowledge exchange. In 2025, I envision a focus on sustainable tourism that promotes the region’s rich history, art, and culture. Initiatives like international cultural festivals, eco-tourism projects, and heritage conservation can elevate the global profile of Jammu and Kashmir.
4.Promoting Technology and Startups
In 2025, the government can create a knowledge-based economy by promoting technology and innovation in Jammu and Kashmir. Establishing IT parks, fostering entrepreneurship, and providing digital infrastructure can empower the youth and create employment opportunities. Programs to support local startups, particularly in agriculture, handicrafts, and tourism, can transform the region into a hub of innovation.
Global Cooperation and the Role of Jammu and Kashmir
Jammu and Kashmir’s geopolitical significance positions it as a bridge for global cooperation. In 2025, the region can play a role in fostering understanding between India and its neighbors, acting as a symbol of unity amidst diversity. Peace in J&K can have a ripple effect, contributing to regional and global stability.
Conclusion
The year 2025 holds immense promise for Jammu and Kashmir. As we strive for political stability, economic growth, and knowledge-based development, it is essential to prioritize the aspirations and well-being of the people. Through inclusive policies, innovative solutions, and global cooperation, we can ensure that Jammu and Kashmir fulfills its potential as a beacon of hope, resilience, and progress in India and the world.
Let 2025 be the year when Jammu and Kashmir truly becomes a shining example of peace, prosperity, and progress for all.
( The writer is well known figure of tourism sector and houseboat industry of Jammu and Kashmir)

Dr. Prasana Kumar Dalai Shines in Literary World

Dr. Prasana Kumar Dalai shines in literary world
Dr. Prasana Kumar Dalai is a distinguished writer and scholar from Odisha, India, who has made significant contributions to English literature. With a profound passion for writing, Dr. Dalai has authored numerous books, articles, and research papers that have been widely acclaimed for their literary merit and academic rigor.
Dr. Dalai’s writings often explore the nuances of Odia culture, tradition, and society, offering a unique perspective on the human experience. His works are characterized by their lyrical prose, depth of emotion, and philosophical insights, which have resonated with readers and critics alike. As a scholar, Dr. Dalai has also made notable contributions to the field of English literature, with a particular focus on postcolonial studies, cultural theory, and literary criticism.
Through his writings, Dr. Dalai has played a vital role in promoting Odisha’s rich cultural heritage and literary traditions to a global audience. His work has helped to create a deeper understanding and appreciation of Odia culture, while also inspiring a new generation of writers and scholars from the state. As a testament to his literary excellence, Dr. Dalai has received numerous awards and accolades, including recognition from esteemed literary organizations and institutions.
Dr. Dalai’s contributions to English literature in Odisha are a testament to his dedication, passion, and commitment to the literary arts. His writings continue to inspire, educate, and enrich readers, while his scholarly work has helped to shape the contours of English literary studies in the state. As a writer, scholar, and cultural ambassador, Dr. Prasana Kumar Dalai remains a towering figure in Odisha’s literary landscape.

A brief about the journey of MUSHTAAQUE ALI AHMAD KHAN …. a story of resilience

A brief about the journey of MUSHTAAQUE ALI AHMAD KHAN …. a story of resilience.

 

In the kaleidoscope of Kashmir’s cultural landscape, there emerges a figure, Mushtaaque Ali Ahmad Khan, whose journey resonates with the symphony of perseverance and passion, navigating through the ebbs and flows of life’s turbulent waters. Born amidst the serene vistas of Srinagar, his childhood melodies echo through the corridors of memory, coloured by the floods of 2014 that ushered a relocation to new shores, symbolizing resilience in adversity.

From the hallowed halls of DAV School, Jawahar Nagar to the vibrant stages of NCC camps, his voice found wings amidst the cadence of patriotism, soaring high in the skies of determination. The corridors of Muneer Building witnessed the blossoming of talent, where melodies intertwined with destiny, guided by the maestros of Song and Drama Division, sculpting dreams into reality.

Academic pursuits painted the canvas of knowledge, as Geology, Geography, and Chemistry became the backdrop for his quest for excellence. In the amphitheatre of Amar Singh College, sporting endeavours danced in harmony with cultural endeavours, while the corridors reverberated with echoes of leadership forged in NCC’s crucible.

The curtain rose on a new act as university life unfolded, unveiling a tapestry of pursuits where sportsmanship met artistry on the fields of Hockey, Football, and Badminton. Amidst the scholarly pursuits in the department of Geography at Kashmir University, the stage beckoned, casting him as the maestro orchestrating cultural symphonies, weaving tales of melodious fervour.

Yet, the heart’s desire yearned for the limelight of the theatre, a passion long suppressed but never extinguished. Emerging from the cocoon of parental expectations, they spread his wings, embracing the thespian realm with fervour unmatched. The stage became his canvas, and the spotlight his muse, as he painted portraits of emotion with every enunciation, every gesture.

The corridors of Forensic Science Laboratory bore witness to a crossroads, where duty and passion stood at odds, beckoning a choice between the comfort of certainty and the allure of dreams. With courage as his compass, he bid farewell to the familiar shores, embarking on a journey where every script was a revelation, every performance a testament to the indomitable spirit.

As the annals of time unfurled, the chapters of his life unfolded, each verse a testament to resilience, each stanza a celebration of creativity. From the airwaves of All India Radio to the celluloid realms of Doordarshan, his voice echoed through the annals of history, weaving tales that transcended time and space.

In the crucible of challenges, he emerged as a beacon of inspiration, his endeavours transcending the realms of art to embrace the mantle of leadership. The International Film Festival of Kashmir stands as a testament to his vision, a celebration of celluloid dreams amidst the snow-capped peaks of the valley.

Through the vicissitudes of life, he remained steadfast, good spirit undaunted by the tempests that swept across the horizon. His message reverberates through the corridors of time, a clarion call to all who dare to dream: “The show must go on!” For in the tapestry of life, amidst the myriad hues of struggle and success, his legacy endures, a testament to the power of passion, perseverance, and the undying spirit of the human soul.

In the annals of Kashmir’s cultural heritage, his contributions stand as pillars of inspiration, shaping the narrative of artistic excellence and social transformation. With a heart ablaze with passion and a mind fuelled by vision, he embarked on a journey of innovation and creativity, leaving an indelible mark on every endeavour he undertook.

As the chairman of Actors’ Creative Theatre (ACT), his leadership ushered in an era of vibrancy and dynamism, fostering a nurturing environment for budding artists to flourish and thrive. Through workshops, seminars, and cultural festivals, he became architect of change, igniting the flames of creativity in the hearts of generations to come.

His foray into filmmaking and broadcasting was marked by a trailblazing spirit, as he ventured into uncharted territories, pushing the boundaries of storytelling and visual expression. From gripping documentaries that shed light on pressing social issues to captivating telefilms that captured the zeitgeist of the times, his body of work stands as a testament to his artistic vision and unwavering commitment to excellence.

In the realm of theatre, his directorial prowess elevated the craft to new heights, infusing each production with a blend of innovation and tradition that captivated audiences far and wide. With a keen eye for detail and an innate understanding of the human condition, he breathed life into characters, transforming the stage into a mirror that reflected the complexities of the human experience.

His endeavours were not confined to the realms of art and culture alone; he also emerged as torchbearer of social change, using his platform to amplify the voices of the marginalized and downtrodden. Through his work with organizations like the North Zone Cultural Centre and his advocacy for the rights of artists in Kashmir, he became champions of inclusivity and equity, striving to create a world where creativity knows no bounds.

In the realm of television and cinema, his journey embarks upon a narrative of innovation and dedication. With Doordarshan’s cessation of outsourcing, a new chapter unfolded, one marked by the orchestration of festivals and showcases. In 2017, amidst the serene backdrop of Srinagar, he conceived the ‘Kashmir World Film Festival’, an audacious endeavour that would burgeon over four editions. The acclaim surpassed even his loftiest aspirations

Attracting luminaries from Mumbai, Delhi, and Kolkata, each edition welcomed distinguished guests like Tabu, MadhurBhandarkar, Saeed Mirza, Govind Nihalani and Rajit Kapur, among others. Yet, it wasn’t just the stars that illuminated the event; the dignitaries from Jammu & Kashmir, including the likes of Dr. Farooq Abdullah, imparted their own radiance upon the festival.

In 2022, an invitation from the esteemed NGO ‘Sarhad’ beckoned him to Pune, Maharashtra, to curate a J&K specific Film Festival, a triumph in its own right. Meanwhile, his prowess as a filmmaker resonated beyond borders, as he earned the distinction of representing India as a jury member for ‘International Film Festival’ being held at Kathmandu, Nepal slated for 2024.

His oeuvre extends far beyond the glitz of festivals, spanning a repertoire of over four dozen documentaries, a dozen telefilms, and an impressive tally of serials and programs for Doordarshan and other governmental entities. Not confined to the visual realm, he has also etched his mark on the airwaves, crafting stirring serials and features for All India Radio, Srinagar.

Amidst the accolades and honours that adorn his mantle, his greatest legacy lies in the lives he has touched and the hearts he has inspired. For in the grand tapestry of human existence, it is not the awards or achievements that endure, but the indelible imprint of kindness, compassion, and creativity that defines a life well-lived. And in that regard, his legacy shines bright, a beacon of hope and inspiration for generations to come.

At the forefront of his pantheon of inspirations stands the legendary Prithviraj Kapoor, whose larger-than-life presence on stage and screen captured the imagination of audiences across generations. His theatrical prowess and indomitable spirit served as a guiding light, igniting the flames of passion within his heart and fuelling his relentless pursuit of excellence.

Alongside Prithviraj Kapoor stands the venerable BalrajSahni, whose nuanced portrayals of human emotion transcended the confines of celluloid, leaving an indelible impression on the psyche of a nation. Through his mastery of the craft, he bridged the gap between art and reality, inspiring him to delve deeper into the recesses of his own soul and unearth the hidden treasures of expression.

In the annals of Indian cinema, few names evoke as much reverence as Dilip Kumar, whose mesmerizing performances breathed life into iconic characters and elevated storytelling to an art form. His ability to embody the essence of every role he portrayed served as a beacon of inspiration, reminding him of the transformative power of empathy and immersion.

No homage to the luminaries of yesteryears would be complete without a nod to the stalwarts of Indian music, whose melodic strains have woven themselves into the fabric of our cultural consciousness. From the soulful crooning of Mohammad Rafi to the ethereal melodies of Mehdi Hassan and Ghulam Ali, each note served as a testament to the enduring legacy of musical genius, inspiring him to look harness the power of song as a means of storytelling and self-expression.

Yet, inspiration knows no bounds as his pantheon extends beyond the realms of cinema and music to encompass the visionaries of Indian literature and filmmaking. From the trailblazing efforts of filmmakers like M.S. Sathyu and ShyamBenegal to the poetic brilliance of writers like K. Asif and Kamal Amrohi, each luminary cast a long shadow upon the landscape of creativity, challenging him to push the boundaries of his own artistic endeavours and strive for greatness.

In essence, Mushtaaque Ali Ahmad Khan’s journey is not just a personal triumph but a contribution to the cultural tapestry of Kashmir. His tireless efforts to revive cinema culture, promote local talent, and encourage the youth make him a revered figure in the world of arts and culture in the region.

 

Digital Nikah: A Modern Twist on Tradition as Man Marries via Video Call

Digital Nikah: A Modern Twist on Tradition as Man Marries via Video Call
Peerzada Masarat Shah
In a story that combines love, family obligations, and the impact of modern technology, an Indian man recently married over a video call after his employer denied him leave. Adnan Muhammad, currently based in Turkey, married his bride from Himachal Pradesh’s Mandi through a “digital nikah” in a virtual ceremony that has gone viral.
The Unforeseen Circumstances
The decision to proceed with a virtual wedding wasn’t taken lightly. Adnan, who had been planning a traditional wedding back in India, found himself in a tough situation when his Turkish employer refused to grant him leave. Meanwhile, the bride’s ailing grandfather insisted that the wedding take place promptly, hoping to witness the ceremony despite his declining health.
A Marriage Across Screens
With no other options available, the families of both the bride and groom decided to go digital. Using video call technology, they connected across countries and coordinated a nikah that would otherwise have occurred in person. During the online ceremony, both Adnan and his bride affirmed their vows by repeating “qubool hai” (“I accept”) three times, in accordance with Islamic traditions. A qazi, or Islamic officiant, guided the couple and their families through the rituals, ensuring the sanctity of the marriage remained intact despite the virtual setup.
Technology Meets Tradition
In many ways, this wedding exemplifies how technology is reshaping our lives, even in deeply traditional matters like marriage. While remote weddings became common during the pandemic, Adnan’s story serves as a reminder that distance, work obligations, or unexpected situations don’t have to be barriers to fulfilling one’s commitments.
A Viral Moment
Social media quickly caught on to this unique wedding story, and it has since gone viral, sparking conversations about family, duty, and adaptability. Many have praised the families for their willingness to adapt, and the couple has become a symbol of love finding a way—even if that means celebrating the union virtually.
This “digital nikah” is yet another testament to how, with the right mindset, modern tools can keep love alive and allow for cherished traditions to endure.

Sustainable agriculture

Sustainable Agriculture via crop neutral incentives
Balancing Resource Use and Crop Diversification for a Resilient Future
DR. K. P. RANJAN
Director, Regional Institute of Cooperative Management, Chandigarh
DR. RAMANDEEP SINGH
Faculty Member, Regional Institute of Cooperative Management, Chandigarh
India’s agriculture sector, a cornerstone of the economy, sustains over 42% of the population and contributes significantly to the country’s GDP. Yet, despite its vital role, the sector is grappling with a series of interconnected problems that threaten its sustainability and future growth. One of the most pressing issues is the over-reliance on a few staple crops like rice and wheat, which though supported by substantial government subsidies, have led to severe environmental and economic challenges. These include the depletion of critical water resources, degradation of soil health, and a disproportionate focus on crops that are not aligned with the evolving needs of food security and nutrition.
Currently, India’s agricultural landscape is skewed towards these water-intensive crops due to the heavy subsidies provided for water, electricity, and fertilisers. This has resulted in excessive production, particularly of rice, making India the largest exporter of the grain. However, this success comes at a significant cost. Exporting rice essentially means exporting vast amounts of water—an increasingly scarce resource in the country. Moreover, the cultivation practices for these crops, particularly paddy, contribute to methane emissions, exacerbating climate change. Soil health is also deteriorating due to the overuse of chemical fertilisers, which are necessary to sustain the high yields of these staple crops.
Recognizing these issues, the government has implemented several initiatives aimed at mitigating the impact of these challenges. The introduction of the Minimum Support Price (MSP) system and the PM-KISAN scheme provide financial security to farmers, encouraging them to continue farming despite the challenges. Additionally, programs like the Prime Minister’s Fasal Bima Yojana (PMFBY) offer insurance against crop failure, providing a safety net for farmers dealing with the vagaries of weather. However, these measures, while beneficial, are not sufficient to address the underlying issues of crop diversification and sustainability.
The existing solutions are primarily focused on providing short-term relief and support, without addressing the need for a structural transformation in agricultural practices. What is needed is a shift towards a more balanced, diversified agricultural model—one that promotes the cultivation of a wider variety of crops that are less resource-intensive and more aligned with the country’s nutritional needs. This is where the concept of crop-neutral incentive structures comes into play.
Crop-neutral incentives involve providing equal financial support across different types of crops, particularly those that are less water-intensive and more sustainable, such as pulses, oilseeds, and millets. These crops not only require fewer resources but also play a crucial role in enhancing food security and nutrition. By offering equivalent subsidies for these crops, the government can encourage farmers to diversify their production, reducing the environmental impact and making agriculture more sustainable in the long term.
To implement this ideal solution, several steps need to be taken. First, investments in irrigation and water-saving technologies must be increased to reduce the dependency on monsoons and improve the efficiency of water use in agriculture. Second, there should be a focus on developing post-harvest infrastructure and improving market access for diversified crops. This would ensure that farmers receive fair prices for their produce, making diversification economically viable. Lastly, public awareness campaigns and education programs should be launched to inform farmers about the benefits of crop diversification and the availability of financial incentives for cultivating a wider range of crops.
While India’s agriculture sector has made significant strides, it is at a crossroads where continuing with the current practices could lead to unsustainable outcomes. By adopting crop-neutral incentive structures and promoting crop diversification, India can not only safeguard its agricultural future but also ensure that farming remains a viable and profitable endeavour for generations to come. This shift towards a more balanced and sustainable agricultural model is essential for addressing the pressing challenges of resource depletion, environmental degradation, and the evolving needs of food and nutritional security in the country.